You know what really gets under my skin? When people think they can lie to someone studying law as if we havenāt spent countless nights sacrificing sleep, drowning in case studies, and sharpening our minds to catch even the tiniest cracks in an argument. Itās almost laughable, really. We donāt just memorize laws and procedures; we analyze, we dissect, and we anticipate. Every sentence, every pause, every little inconsistency, it all stands out like flashing lights to someone trained to see through the noise.

Itās not just about the obvious facts; itās about the subtle patterns that most people overlook. The way someoneās story shifts ever so slightly. The hesitation before answering a simple question. The overcompensation that screams insecurity. We pick up on the things unsaid just as much as the things that are. Thatās what this field teaches usāto read between the lines and understand human nature just as much as legal codes.
So when someone tries to lie to me, itās not just frustrating, itās flat-out insulting. Itās like saying all those sleepless nights spent chasing valid arguments, all the mental exhaustion, all the sacrifices that they donāt mean anything. As if we didnāt earn this sharpness, this ability to notice when something doesnāt add up.



What people donāt realize is that this exhaustion? It doesnāt weaken us, it refines us. Every late night spent wrestling with complex arguments, every ounce of frustration over a case that didnāt click right away, every drained morning, it all molds us into people who donāt just hear the truth; we feel it.
So hereās a little reminder for anyone who thinks they can outsmart someone studying law: Weāve trained ourselves to see the flaws you think youāre hiding. Your contradictions arenāt as invisible as you believe. And the truth? It doesnāt stay buried for long, especially not with someone like me watching.
I knew it,
Ana š
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